Hey All! For our 1st installment of SIRve It Up Saturrdays...
Kevin Clay offers a great take on what he feels is a true measure of character in females...read below and post your opinions/comments......
" It’s truly an honor to be part of the DIVA Rule blog endeavor. In today’s society there is no shortage of portals that give advice and encouragement to the masses. Life is ambiguous and people are looking for direction; “how to find a mate, how to raise your children, find a good job, what to wear, what to eat, etc.” At every turn, it seems like someone has the answer, that magical insider’s secret to give you the “one-up” on the next guy (or should I say girl). This is all in an attempt to make us live longer, or live better or happier. And they may in fact do just that, TEMPORARILY. But long-term, the best thing for us to do is maintain a strong sense of self; who we are, who we aspire to be, what steps are necessary to reach our “ideal self” at our maximum potential? These are questions that only we can answer. Trust that there will be no shortage of stumbling blocks. But when obstacles occur, a person with a strong sense of who they are and where they are going can regroup and maintain their course. Trust in God and know yourself.
Character is multidimensional and different characteristics appeal to different guys. Know yourself, be honest about who you say you are and be consistent in your displays of character. Personally, I admire a woman with a strong sense of self; a self which is driven by noble purpose and rooted in a relationship with God. I love a genuine person who wants to do right by those less fortunate. That may not be important to another guy. That may not be who you are.
Know who you are and be honest about it, Ladies! "
Kevin Clay is currently a Social Psychology Graduate Student at Rutgers University. He is also the Manager of the up and coming clothing line LES Love. For more information about LES Love, go to lesloveclothing.com.
I like hearing advice from men (especially on the elusive "what men really want from a woman") but I love hearing that what men really want is for women to be themselves! Being genuine and unique are two characteristics that aren't truly celebrated in our society so I'm very glad that I have found a blog that appreciates me for who I am.
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I am in love with and in full agreement with this statement. "Trust that there will be no shortage of stumbling blocks. But when obstacles occur, a person with a strong sense of who they are and where they are going can regroup and maintain their course. Trust in God and know yourself."
ReplyDeleteI would only add, that there is also no shortage of help, when you are working on your "course", you may not see it coming, but it is always right on time.